Wafaat ki I’ddat

2476. Agar koi aurat bewa ho jaaye aur agar woh haamla ho to qamri chaar mahine das din I’ddat rakhe. Y’ani shadi karne se ruuki rahe. Khawah woh (nau saal se) chhoti ho ya yaesa ya muta’ kiya ho ya kaafir ho ya mutlaqa raje’a ki I’ddat mein ho ya shauhar ne oos se majam’at na ki ho, chaahe shauhar bachcha ya diwaana ho. Aur agar haamla ho to zaruri hai keh waza’ haml tak I’ddat rakhe. Laikin agar chaar mahine aur das din guzarne se pahle bachcha paida ho jaaye to zaruri hai keh shauhar ki maut ke b’ad chaar mahine das din tak sabr kare aur iis I’ddat ko wafaat ki I’ddat kahte hain.

2477. Jo aurat wafaat ki I’ddat mein ho oos ke liye rang birange lebaas pehanna, surmaa lagana aur isii tarah dusre aise kaam karna jo zeenat mein shuumaar hote hain haraam hain laikin ghar se baahar nikalna haraam nahin hai.

2478. Agar aurat ko yaqeen ho jaaye keh oos ka shauhar mar chuuka hai (iis liye I’ddat wafaat rakhi) aur I’ddat ke guzarne ke b’ad dusri shaadi ki. Magar b’ad mein m’aloom hua keh shauhar b’a mein maraa hai aur aurat ne pahle shauhar ki zindagi mein ya oos ke I’ddat wafaat ke dauraan dusri shaadi ki hai to oose chahiye keh dusre shauhar se fauran alag ho jaaye aur ehtayaat-e-waajib ki bina par do I’ddat guzaare. Pas agar dusre shauhar ke sathh haamla ho to bachcha janne tak dusre shauhar ke sathh wait shabha ki I’ddat rakhe (jo talaaq ki I’ddat ke barabar hai) aur iis ke b’ad pahle shauhar ki I’ddat wafaat guzaare ya pahle I’ddat ki takmeel kare. Agar haamla na ho aur pahle shauhar ki wafaat dusre shauhar ke sathh majam’at se pahle huyee thhi to pahle I’ddat wafaat rakhe oos ke b’ad wait shabha ki I’ddat guzaare. Laikin majam’at pahle shauhar ki wafaat se pahle huyee thhi to oos ki I’ddat muqaddam hai.

2479. Jis aurat ka shauhar lapata ho ya lapata hone ke hukm mein ataa ho oos ki I’ddat wafaat shauhar ki maut ki itla’ milne ke vaqt se shuru’ hoti hai na keh shauhar ki maut ke vaqt se laikin iis hukm ka itlaaq oos aurat ke liye hona jo naabaligh ya paagal ho mehal ishkaal hai iis liye ehtayaat ka lehaaz rakhna waajib hai.

2480. Agar aurat kahe keh meri I’ddat khatm ho gayee hai to oos ki baat qaabil qabool hai magar yeh keh woh ghalat bayaan madhuur ho to oos suurat mein ehtayaat-e-waajib ki bina par oos ki baat qaabil qabool nahin hai. Maslan woh kahe keh mujhe ek mahine mein teen dafa’ khoon ataa hai to oos baat ki tasdeeq nahin ki jaayegi magar yeh keh oos ki saheliyaan aur rishtedaar auratein iis baat ki tasdeeq kare keh oos ki haiz ki a’adat aisii hai thhi.